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assalamualaikum!

it's a new monthh! assalamualaikum bulan november! *lambai lambai kat jam*

ok a lot of people kept asking me bila nak kahwin and ada yang meminta saya mengajak mereka, maka saya mengajak la secara terbuka...

untuk baca majalah NUR November '12 issue!

double wedding uolls!

sila jemput membaca wedding impian iolls and fatin suhana's!! hehehe!

handsome hingga ke syurga

eh eh, dambakan kasih sayang hingga ke syurga, in sha Allah =)

tu diaaaa! si giant sebelah si petite!!

anyway, magazine nur ni bukan just about me and fatin, but it's a whole episode of nasihat and useful tips!

ni memang the best la!

25 pintu pahala & penghapus dosa!

we all wanna be in Jannah later, so this is a good guidance la =)

in sha Allah, in sha Allah

another useful tip =')

so barangsiapa yang nak kawen, you want ideas for your wedding and tips on how to build a masjid together, i recommend this magazine =) 

BANYAK GILA TIPS TIPS DIA WEH! iolls suka =D

 another thing to look forward to in this amazing month of November,

Entri Jameela!

Di Astro Oasis, 4th November, 7.30pm!

watch the promo here!!

kalau kot kot la uolls nak tengok iolls bebel bebel pasal... oh my gosh. i forgot what it was about.

ok. iolls pun kena tengok la sebab iolls tak ingat iolls bebel pasal apa.

seriously otak. why you do this to me?

oh well.

anyways, yeah.

i don't know if i'm deserving, because i feel like there're so many unspoken heroes more worthy than me, and all this maybe, just maybe a test for me.

for what it's worth, i hope all the magazines or shows i've been featured in ada lah benefit dia. for both me and orang yang baca/tengok.

=)

jazakallah/jazakillah khair everyone!

for your tremendous support =')

OH YA!!!

video sudah diupdate, alhamdulillah. mungkin less bersemangat than before tapi i think you can understand why la kan. =)

hope this one is beneficial as well.

salam =D

Taking haters lovingly

Assalamualaikum wbt, ukhti & akhi sekalian!

how gangsta am i? i've blogged quite frequently lately!
*claps to myself*

anyway, i've had time to make a video the other day.
yes, dah nampak video kat bawah terus click play pastu tak baca kan mende i tulis ni kaaannnnn!!!
hoho!

ha, tengok la. pastu baca sikit apa i tulis kat bawah yaaaa! ada cerita di sebalik bideo. thanks! =)



ok here are the reasons why i made this video:

1. because i get tweets about how to handle haters
2. because i get messages about how to handle haters
3. because i feel like i owe haters an apology and give them my thanks

ok? so yeah. i've been receiving messages about this and please peeps, i tak sedih sebab haters!
i'm not sad, depressed nor hurt by the haters! if i looked sad, it's probably coz i was sad at myself (for personal reasons which i wont story mory here la. heeee..)

i wrote in the description of this video too about how these 'haters' are actually my saviours, but i guess people don't read that bit. hahaha! oh well. my bad gak la sebab i didnt mention it myself. i was talking spontaneously kan. takde script mende pun. buahahaha! =p

i can't believe though, how many people asked me about this. and i macam "kamaaannn, takkan la ramai sangat orang ada haters neeehhhhh?"
like i said in the video too, there are 2 types of 'haters'.
one species just wanna troll.
one species just dont know how to give their honest brutal opinions nicely, but they mean well.
=)

kids, teens, and young adults, 

why so serious?

my mom used to slap me when i did something wrong and scolded me, but i love her more for that. if she hadn't done that, i'll probably be some messed up person now. before you say things about my mom, i totally deserved all that coz i was a very stubborn child.
same applies to these 'haters'.
they might be very angry or something at you, but there must be a reason why they're like that. probably you did something wrong but you're just too proud to see it.

drop that ego!

chill and learn je.
i memang la ada terasa sometimes, i am human after all. a girl, with feelings, with harry potter bantal and cats. and dresses and flowers. motip? ok, you get the gist. =p
but oh well. we can't win over all hearts.

okie dokie?
capisce?
capsicum?
milo ais? teh tarik? neslo?
pergi mamak, cakap hello. sekian pantun dua kerat.

so dah dah la k nak down down coz of 'haters'. if you happen to have haters yang jealous of you or whatever, then stay away from that person la. if the person cari pasal ngan you, you just bagi dia jumpa pasal yang baik about you. how's that for an awesome advice? you just have to trust me, coz i'm an engineer. hahahahaah!! (sorry ter-9gag jap)

chill k?
the world needs us to keep on improving. and to my 'haters' who happen to read this, you need to improve too =)

thank you all!
peace.

case compare dan complain

assalamualaikum~

i don't really remember where i saw this, but a while ago, i macam ternampak (again i forgot where) a group of girls comparing themselves with random people.
example:
"cantik nya maria selena gomez (pun boleehhh).. untung lah.. dah la boipren asbieber (pun boleeehhhh)"

"untunglah husband hot"

"untunglah dia kaya"

"untunglah ni.. untunglah tu.."

- these are only examples ok! =p

so back then when i saw these kinds of comments, it's like.. men-downkan i.
i lak yang down! padahal diorang duk sibuk nakkan apa orang lain ada. motif kan?
but see, i rasa sedih tu, sebab we shouldn't compare.

rezeki diorang camtu, nak buat camane?
so what if we don't have their rezeki. we're all blessed anyway!!
we can read right? else you won't be reading this.
we can see right?
we can eat, taste, drink, talk, we can do so many things!
whereas there are people who are less fortunate than us. some can't see, some can't hear, some don't even know what internet is!

we are blessed.
we are fortunate enough.

it's time to stop comparing and complaining. i've made a video already about it kan? 'who wins' tu.
and here, i nak relate kan ngan bloggers. (and i'm sorry i bring this up)
a few times some people tag me on their blog posts, and some posts are about the number of followers on blogs. pastu duk compare compare. honestly, i rasa itu tak perlu.

anyway, when you compare, chances are; you'll become competitive for no good reason, you'll forget the rezeki that you already have, you'll become spoil in your own world, wanting and craving for something only you know, and because you can't get it, you'll get depressed. and when depression looms, negativity will become part of you.
when you complain, you're just wasting your time! lagi lagi when you complain and do nothing about it.
you can compare and complain, but there has to be a limit..

and we can't wish we're someone else or live someone else's life because it's not possible.
someone once said to me
"susah tau jadi i.." pastu ada sadface.
and i thought, well, it's never easy for anyone.

Allah swt has given us life, the life we're living, and is it 'nice' of us if we wished we can have another person's life?

be grateful. that's all it takes.
not confidence, not arrogance, not make up, not clothes.
nothing of the sort.

just be grateful.
maybe it's time to stop all this 'untunglah' thing. kita lebihkan 'alhamdulillah'. =)

if you really cannot get through the toughness in your life, you can't stop wanting something you don't have,
then here, let the words from Allah SWT guide you:

Surah Al-Baqarah

taken via phone (instagram)

and so much more =')

life is amazing! we are all amazing!

it'll be a waste if you can't see how amazing it is (because you're too busy comparing and complaining =p)!

if you can, take some time in a day to read the Quran. =)

insyallah you'll learn new things everyday. and together, we share la ya!

حي على الفلاح

"hayya alal falah"

marilah ke arah kejayaan.

ps: sorry if i offended anyone. just want to give a friendly reminder =) sometimes we need that right! ahak!

peace.

sometimes you want to do something nice

but it backfires and turns into something you didn't want it to become.

oh yes, saya tak faham kadang-kala.

sometimes it's easier

1. to blame others,

than blaming yourself.

2. to hide and pretend,

than telling the truth.

3. to give,

than take.

4. to ignore,

than trying or explaining.

sometimes we think we know

but we have no idea.

sometimes kita kata orang

padahal kita pun macam tu.