Monday, July 25, 2016

The mother gave birth to her son, and she was shocked! Here's why...

Assalamualaikum!

Title tu inspired by all this trending sites on fb. "The dog did this. I cried as soon as he did this." Or "This man proposes, but wait till you see what he's holding.." - such a bore. Hehe! 

Blogging suddenly feels like freedom now since all i do during this confinement period is plastering myself to my baby.

You know, the first baby memang get most of the attention, from the time they're in our belly up till they have sibling(s). Nadrah's name came about quite easily. I googled, and had several options, and then one day, i was reading the Quran, and the word "nadhirah" just followed me into my dream for nights. When i proposed the name Nadrah to my husband, he was just "OK. Jalannnnn"

But for our boy ni, i had several options, but all of them were declined by my husband.
He's got a friend whose name is this and he's like this, he's got a classmate with this name and he's like that, etc etc - the names all just tak jive and he seems to know so many guys that whatever name i chose, mesti ada someone with that name yang dia tak berapa berkenan.

I had my choice, my final name but everyone (husband and family) tak nak. 
Sedih ok! They even made fun of the name! T_T
Sampai hati. 
So, i told my husband that he should find the name since the ones i chose tak best. Selagi dia tak jumpa, then on the day our baby's born, he's gonna take the name i chose for him.

With that, my husband began his search for the best name for our son.
FINALLY, he chose Isaac Ashaal, and alhamdulillah i was good with it, my family's good with it, and the world seemed so much brighter since. Haha!

Now, pregnancy with Nadrah & Isaac are completely different. With Nadrah, it was the constant muntah from day one till the day i gave birth to her. With Isaac, it was ok, but he was like a vampire, sucking all my blood that i get tired easily and a lot of times, i would bend down (macam tengah rukuk) in the middle of shopping or something just to get the blood & oxygen into my brain. 
I bet it looks kinda weird. Apo ko hei pompuan ni tengah rukuk tengah tengah 7-11 ni? Bahahaha =p

And i thought since i've endured 14 hrs of contraction with Nadrah (before i submitted to epidural), i thought i'll be able to endure the contraction with Isaac. But NOPE. Isaac had to be induced because doctor said if i wait some more, he could be too big to come out naturally and i have a small pelvic, therefore kena c-sect. I didn't want that so i heed doctor's advice.
But oh my... Induced punya contraction... Sakitnye SAKIT!
Eventhough my husband said i handled the contraction better than when i was with nadrah (masa tu first time kan, so all the time contraction, i just cried. Zikir pun zikir la, tapi sakit pun sakit la), it was too painful! First induced tak jadi, but second time tu... Ya Allah, terus one minute apart je contraction. And i was in so much pain that my body vibrated like crazy and with every breath available, i begged for epidural. 
".....Sayang...Epi....Dural....Nurse...Now...", whisper with rattling voice, can you imagine? Haha!

Dapat epidural, baru lega and alhamdulillah, selamat beranakkan Isaac with 3 well-orchestrated push lead by the nurses & doctor. He weighed 3.6kg. Sihaaat dia =)
Nadrah came out into the world screaming, as if announcing her own arrival, and Isaac pulak came out completely blue (the cord went around his head) tapi dia chill je. The doctor and nurses tended to him so quick and all he did to announce his arrival was a short "Hua" with eyes open. Hahaha!
It was cute =p
Muka blue-ish sebab kena belit tali pusat. In case you're wondering why tak kena bedah, his heart rate and my air ketuban were ok, no signs of baby in distress. Alhamdulillah.

Unfortunately because i have GBS, we both had to stay at the hospital for a couple more days...
Anyone yang pregnant tu, make sure you ask your doctor to check your GBS k?
It's for your baby's own good.

So both pregnancies and labours were completely different. I know la that they wouldn't be the same, it's just that experiencing it made me realise that i was actually hoping that it would be the same so that i can 'handle it better the next time'.

It has been over a month already, alhamdulillah, but my little family is still adjusting to our living arrangement. And also, nadrah still hasn't fully grasp what being a sister means. Oh well. InshaAllah soon we'll all just adapt. 

Can't wait for my pantang to be over!
I'm already craving for some food, freedom and driving! But then, the next challenge will be doing chores with these 2 kids... Hmmmmm..

Oh well!



Here's the 4 of us!
May Allah permudahkan =)

Ps: i gave birth at PMC, sg Buloh. Doctor Wan Ratna.
Best. Love.


34 comments:

Chekgu Azrine said...

Congrats sis..
Selamat berpantang

Chekgu Azrine said...

Congrats sis..
Selamat berpantang

Tim Taj said...

i cried reading your entry..sbb im also with the 2nd one..and teringat saket induce mase 1st one..i hate the unnatural pain...thank god for epidural...and now at 34weeks dah rase xlarat like..everyday just nanges bile rase xlarat...i have gbs too..at 6months ter detect..walaupun akan di beri antibiotic time bersalin nanti..masih kene warded lame ke maria?

i think tak payahla think about nak amek ke x epidural..2nd one pon epidural jelah...the whole 9month process has not been pleasant at all...T.T..bukan xbersyukur but..omg xlarat nye.. malas nak list down all the pregnancy problems and challenges...so happy that u have already crossed the finish line!lots of loveee!

Tim Taj said...

i cried reading your entry..sbb im also with the 2nd one..and teringat saket induce mase 1st one..i hate the unnatural pain...thank god for epidural...and now at 34weeks dah rase xlarat like..everyday just nanges bile rase xlarat...i have gbs too..at 6months ter detect..walaupun akan di beri antibiotic time bersalin nanti..masih kene warded lame ke maria?

i think tak payahla think about nak amek ke x epidural..2nd one pon epidural jelah...the whole 9month process has not been pleasant at all...T.T..bukan xbersyukur but..omg xlarat nye.. malas nak list down all the pregnancy problems and challenges...so happy that u have already crossed the finish line!lots of loveee!

Tim Taj said...

i cried reading your entry..sbb im also with the 2nd one..and teringat saket induce mase 1st one..i hate the unnatural pain...thank god for epidural...and now at 34weeks dah rase xlarat like..everyday just nanges bile rase xlarat...i have gbs too..at 6months ter detect..walaupun akan di beri antibiotic time bersalin nanti..masih kene warded lame ke maria?

i think tak payahla think about nak amek ke x epidural..2nd one pon epidural jelah...the whole 9month process has not been pleasant at all...T.T..bukan xbersyukur but..omg xlarat nye.. malas nak list down all the pregnancy problems and challenges...so happy that u have already crossed the finish line!lots of loveee!

Nur Latif said...

What was the name u choose for Isaac? 😅

Ayumieka said...

Tahniah Maria... selamat berpantang dihari raya yang mulia ini... pulut pantang setahun.. maka dengan itu ketupat palas dan lemang pun terpaksa dijauhkan dahulu... bertabah la ye. ;)

kiss kiss kat baby...

hamiza ahmad tajuddin said...

Congrats Elina & husband..btw can you share the meaning of Isaac Ashaal's name?

Manusia Berubah said...

alhamdulillah dan tahniah dah selamat melahirkan.. happy 4 you.. almost crying juga tgk Isaac yang comel bibir merah (walaupun u kata kebiruan.. hehehehee...)

semoga diizinkan Allah i jadi ibu juga satu hari nanti.. please doakan.. :)

Safura Sulaiman said...

Nice name!apa mksud nama isaac ashaal?

Safura Sulaiman said...

Nice name!apa mksud nama isaac ashaal?

Nurul Syafiqa said...

Nadrah dah ada adik :) Tahniah, Kak Maria! Semoga dipermudahkan semua.

Siti Nurzafirah said...

Kakak Nadrah is so cute

Diana Abdul Molok said...

tahniah and selamat berpantang to u :) look at that handsome boy you have there. I had GBS, and you're the first I know (well, found online in Malaysia) who has GBS too. But my girls were born preterm.

sheAYANG said...

Congrats sis & family.
Bestnya nadrah dah dapat adik.
GBS? I kena google dulu. Hihihi.

MOHD.IZZUDDIN FITRI ABD AZIZ said...

Assalamualaikum.

Tahniah, kak. Comel anak.

From,
M I Fitri

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syalinda johari said...

CONGRATS....
Saya ada 4 orang anak, 8 tahun, 6 tahun, 2 tahun and 4 months..
balik kerja rasa nak pengsan..hahahaha..
yang baby bf...

selamat menjalani kehidupan baru with 2 kids...

Ahda A.S said...

Congrats Kak Maria. Your story is positive for young people. Heee..

Hayati M Y said...

Uihh Maria, tak tau pon pregnant. ehe of course la lama tak jengah. hahaha! btw congratulations!! sama la kita 2 babies on the board. kecohnya lahaiii... skarang da start makin easy makin easy sebab no 2 tu da nak start jalan. Lepasni da senang nak buat keje sikit.

Shuriana Khamisan said...

Selamat berpantang maria. Then will be my turn insyallah..4 months to go.

syasandeul said...

Have been waiting so long for ur update and finally! Congrats ummi Mars! So happyyyy to see you happyyy hehe

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chiku the chucuru said...

Tahniah Maria... so our 2nd is the same age. I born my baby boy February haritu. My first child pun a girl.

Wanne Wanda said...

waaa.. semoga isaac sihat selaluuuu

ADEEYA said...

Congrats. Goodluck with confinement process hehe

fairus emilia said...

Congrats kakak. Dah ada sepasang baby dah.

dorsett pink said...

aLHAMDULILLAH .DAH SELAMAT.. Thaniah maria on ur new born - Isaac. Such a beautiful name

dewidahlia said...

Assalamualaikum! Hi Maria! Been a fan of you for awhile now, so I'm just gonna put myself out there! I'm an aspiring youtuber and my content is more towards motherhood. Although my youtube channel is still a baby baby baby with only 55 subscribers, but I want to know if there's a way we can collaborate since you're a mother as well and I would LOVE the opportunity to meet with you and share experiences! My channel is Life of a Dewi (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz_LIDnnOaiXex3ygx6fkpw?view_as=public) SUPER HOPE YOU NOTICE THIS COMMENT!! Much love to you and your family! xoxo

Potato Tomato said...

Congrats kak! Welcome Isaac. Semoga jadi anak soleh tau! :)

Nurulfatin Adiana said...

tahniah sis.alhamdulillah.jemput ke blog sy adianazulhilmistory.blogspot.com

Mohd Amin Mohd Sani said...

terbaik

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