Sunday, June 22, 2014

housewives, this is for you

Assalamualaikum~

Haritu ada potosut kat rumah for majalah keluarga.



i wore my Paisley Red set from La Kayena, of choz =p


anyway, i realised that (as i was answering the questions from Emi tudung colourful itew), i have nothing particularly special to share.

what i do most of the time is tending to Nadrah.
yes, i have a business to run and studies to finish, but for-real-for-real, most of my time is spent being a mother.

sometimes, i don't even know apa je i buat sampai rasa penat at the end of the day. bahahaaha!

so this is a shout out to all housewives!
you might feel unappreciated, lonely, tired, depressed, and sad.
trust me, we all have a dose of that sometimes.

BUT! don't allow these feelings to hold you for long.
tell your hubs about it, and even if they don't understand or know how to help you, at least, let that tightness off your chest. cry as much as you want (or can)! you are allowed to! sing your favourite songs, watch your favourite movies or spoil yourself with a tub of ice cream. i don't judge. i promise! i understand you =)

and you, you must know this:
you're doing such a good job. an awesome job!
while everyone who's working gets recognition, gets to "reward" themselves, you have sacrificed all your worldly desires just so that you can raise your child(ren)!
i know you want to feel appreciated once in a while, i know you want to feel significant in the world, i know you want to feel like you've accomplished something so awesome.

your children will appreciate you, in sha Allah!
you are significant in the world! you are the Best Teacher for your kids! no other teachers can teach as best as you! and you have accomplished something awesome, you're shaping a generation of intelligent and thoughtful people! that's a tough job!

here's to you, being such a Hero.
you're amazing =')

May Allah SWT grant you Paradise and place you among the martyrs for your Jihad.

i love you lillahi taala =)

senyum senyum la ye! ihiks!


20 comments:

sYiRa LoKMaN said...

Suka kak maria :D

juicy X said...

Betul...kdg2 terpikir "apa laaaa yg aku buat sampai penat sgt". tak sedar pon apa keja kita tp yg pasti byk keja

dan gaji kita sgt MAHAL! im proud to be housewife! :)

aniesa ahmad said...

Semoga nadrah menjadi anak solehah.

aswa leyla said...

keep strong k.maria . letih sekejap, tgk muke nadrah terus hilang penat kan

TunSha Ayunie said...

kiss Nadrah for me... SubhanALLAH, sangat comel !

Dust said...

kak maria cantiknyaaa with make up! geramnya tgk nadrah kiutttt

fatin j said...

MasyaAllah. This post actually made me cry. Baru je lepas share article bout being a lonely mama http://www.whenathome.com/are-you-lonely-mama/ n then I stumbled upon ur post. Now, kalau I jumpa u kt mana2 I know I can run to u n say 'HOLD ME!' Haha ur a good mother too Maria n thanks for reminding us housewives that what we do r worth it :)

PeRdU cINta said...

Moga kita mendapat ganjaran pahala dan syurga..nadrah cumil..

Faha Wan said...

Betul 2...sometime rasa penat sgt2.mtp happy coz spent time ngn anak2..😙I'm proud to be a housewife.. (^_^)

Nadia Adibah said...

Gojesnye kak Mar!!

Eryna said...

It's true...

Eryna said...

It's true...

purplelurve said...

I'm proud to be a housewife! Don't mind when people what you do for living and I said I'm a housewife. :) It's the toughest job in the world!

Cik Asma BLuppy said...

salute to housewife!

Nurul Lysa said...

puan maghia make me cry :(

Mommy Nia said...

now i knw im not alone...thanks maria.

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Farra AM said...

:-) am touched!

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Sheluth Nur said...

nice post