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assalamualaikum~

hello alam maya!

hello blog!

hello bloggers!

hello readers!

since nadrah came into our world, i haven't had the time to really sit down and type stuff. i tried before this but it's hard to type with one hand when the other is supporting nadrah. 

today i have both of my hands coz mom is holding her, yay!

so a few days ago, i saw a status yang orang share kat facebook pasal hukum pakai telekung warna warni, lycra dan yang berfesyen.

status yang orang duk share ni berasakan pedas masin sikit sebab dia tegur la orang yang duk tanya pasal hukum pakai telekung itu ini macam orang yang terlalu over (sebab small matters like that pun nak tanya).

some of the things mentioned i agree, tapi ada yang tak agree gak. tapi biasa la tu. orang nak share opinion dia, itu hak dia. 

there's no right or wrong in opinions.

just whether it's accepted or not je - and itupun bukan salah si orang yang share opinion tu. 

to me, kalau kita punya opinion bercanggah ngan orang lain, kita either just shut up or kita bentangkan kita punya opinion.

and then, we'll see how it goes. if it becomes a debate, it just proves that ego is involved. kalau boleh, hentikan la. tak elok untuk silaturrahim & kesihatan.

if it doesn't, then alhamdulillah! it's a healthy discussion.

when i was younger, memang i was the kind yang darah panas tu, nak opinion diterima semua orang. tapi i think sejak berblogging ni, i've seen stufffff.... (misteri sangat)

i saw the kind of person i was from other people, and i saw the kind of person i could become if i stayed that way.

geli seram sejuk doh. 

kalau dalam hidup ni asyik kita je yang betul, opinion kita je yang bernas, wajib didengari, dan wajib diterima, memang neraka je la tempat kita bila dah mati kang.

sebab ego melampau.

nauzubillah min zalik!

insaf.

so back to the status yang di-share-kan tu, ramai la yang comment balik. 

i couldn't help it, i read them.

some are okay, and of course keyboard warriors ada, online ustaz and ustazah pun ada.

times like these yang i rasa syukur that i don't have that inclination to "share my thoughts" or "my 2cents".

in my opinion, i think it's alright for people to ask questions. even if those questions are small or irrelevant. it may be irrelevant to others, but it may be really helpful to some too.

so apa salahnya?

and in my opinion, kalau nak tegur pasal opinion orang, boleh je. no hal la.

better to check emosi dulu though. 

kalau rasa macam tengah menyirap je darah beku tu, ha. something wrong la. setan dah tarik urat "i cannot tolerate that comment" called ego.

tapi sebab nak betulkan kesalahan dia, like maybe source dia salah ke, or fadhilat dia memesongkan ke, ha. itu ok la.

maka, apakah point blogpost ini hari?

mari kita sama sama audit diri. kalau ada benci pada telekung orang lain, mungkin sebab ada benci pada telekung sendiri.

- Bukan Prof Muhaya

ok just joking =p

motipnya ialah: sama ada kita terima ke tidak opinion orang lain, kita boleh cuba terima yang itu opinion diorang. bukan pasal telekung.
kadang kadang kita ada ilmu dalam satu hal lebih dari orang lain, which is good! but kita sebolehnya jangan memperbodohkan orang lain disebabkan itu.

so to all the keyboard warriors, online ustaz & ustazahs, while it is good that you are sharing your knowledge, your "2cents" or how many cents pun, please be chill about it.
eventhough niat maybe baik, but remember, on the internet, walaupun kita tak bersuara tapi kita boleh membuatkan apa kita tulis berbunyi. sometimes kita nak bersuara manis, tapi orang lain baca dengar suara sinis. paham ke? heee.. camtu la kira.

itu je la.
this post is also a reminder for myself, and if in future anak (or anak-anak) ku decided to read up their ummi's blog, this is for them too.

thanks for reading my "2cents"!

salam!