the guessing game

assalamualaikum!

at this stage of pregnancy, people have been asking me about the gender of the baby.
been to the doctor last month.
due to the paranormal activity of the baby, we both thought it's safer to just not confirm anything yet.

and i tell ya, ramai gila orang yang bagi assumption on the gender.
ada kata laki, ada kata pompuan.

some said coz of the way i am (malas nak melawa, anti social, suka makan benda manis) it must be a boy!
then i met some that said coz of the way i am (malas nak melawa, anti social, suka makan benda manis) it must be a girl!
"oh perut besar ke tepi. it's a girl"
"oh perut tak nampak. it's a boy"
macam macam!!

it's so confusing at first, because mostly yang i take seriously are women who has kids already, but now i just enjoy hearing them guess the gender.

dah jadi game dah! 'Guess the Baby's Gender'! winner will get bragging rights and allowed to say "dah agak dah!" sampai baby dah beso. haha!

everyone's pregnancy is different.
i have friends and family who were pregnant, and their symptoms of having a girl or boy aren't the same!

example - my cousin was so into sweet stuff when she was pregnant, she puts extra effort when dressing up, thought she's carrying a boy, bila keluar je, baby girl.

i have a friend yang gila selekeh masa pregnant, don't wanna see anyone and even when she had to, she'll only 'tunjuk muka' and leave asap. she gave birth to a baby girl.

paling best is, ada sorang tu bila dah scan found that the baby's a girl, but bila keluar je, it's a boy!

so i say, biar la dia nak laki ke pompuan. Allah lagi tau which is best for us all. heee..

although...
the other day husbeyh said he hopes the baby is a boy.
i replied "hey! jangan doa la!!"
to which he replied "biar lah! baby i gak!"
and i said "bagi la i dapat apa i nak. asyik you je yang dapat apa you nak..."

bet you can guess what i want. bueheheheheheee =p

but then again, in all seriousness, whatever gender baby is, he or she is still a blessing from Allah Maha Pemurah, and we love him or her a lot.
and thus, for now, husbeyh & i are gonna enjoy the Guess the Baby's Gender game. ihik!

wore this last night to iftar at Kelantan Delights at Sooka Central (first time woh makan kat KL Sentral area!!). the area of that place.. it's like a super small version of Putrajaya. 

shawl: plain black shawl given by Shea Rasol kesayangan

loose top : Cotton On (belly can expand sesuka hati in it coz it's super loose & comfy)

Lavida Long Panel Skirt : Cangkuk at Fashionvalet (coz all my bottoms dah kotat.. ni je la staple skirt for me)

Cardigan in Floral : House of Doll at Fashionvalet

i know.

biasa je kan.

ha. laki ke pompuan?

=p